5519 Hi%2c+%0aI+need+help%2c+my+11+month+old+bub+really+resists+his+day+time+sleeps%2e+He+will+have+a+morning+sleep+of+1%2e5+hours+but+I+have+to+rock+him+to+sleep+to+get+him+to+sleep%2e+We+have+been+to+sleep+school+and+he+was+able+to+put+himself+to+sleep+but+hasn%27t+for+the+last+few+weeks%2e+Nothing+has+really+changed+except+he+is+now+able+to+stand+up%2e+In+the+afternoon+he+won%27t+even+be+rocked+to+sleep%2e+I+have+tried+to+go+back+to+the+sleep+school+techniques+but+after+an+hour+of+crying+he+is+still+awake+and+we+are+both+distressed%2e+If+I+picked+him+up+and+rocked+him+I%27d+know+he%27d+be+asleep+in+minutes%2e+Am+I+creating+a+rod+for+my+own+back%3f+Please+help%21+%0aFleur
5522 hi+fleur+%2c+%0ahave+you+read+pinkys+book+sleeping+like+a+baby%3f+%2c+you+will+feel+better+about+your+own+decisions+and+instincts%2e+I+am+not+sure+when+we+gave+up+on+our+instincts+%2c+I+am+attempting+to+reinstall+them%2e+You+know+your+bub+better+than+anyone+else+%2c+trust+yourself%2e+Cherish+those+hugs+one+day+he+will+say+%26quot%3boh+yuck+mum+don%27t%26quot%3b%0aa+wise+friend+of+mine+wrote+to+me%0a%26quot%3bcooking+and+cleaning+can+wait+for+tomorrow+%2c+cause+babies+grow+up+and+we%27ll+know+our+sorrow+%2c+so+uieten+down+cobwebs+and+dust+go+to+sleep+%2c+I%27m+holding+my+baby+as+babies+don%27t+keep%26quot%3b+every+time+I%27m+having+a+rough+night+I+recite+my+mum+mantra+and+soon+my+baby+won%27t+be+a+baby%2e+enjoy+allow+yourself+to+be+an+emotionally+responsive+mum%2e+%0atake+care+wendy+%28the+letter+%26quot%3bKEW%26quot%3b+doesn%27t+work%29
5529 Thanks+Wendy%2c%0aI+have+read+Pinky%27s+book+and+re%2dread+it+yesterday+and+it+was+very+reassuring%2e+There+is+nothing+nicer+than+holding+my+bub+in+my+arms+when+he%27s+asleep+and+I+can+gaze+at+him+lovingly%2e+You+are+right+I+should+make+the+most+of+it%2c+he+will+be+one+in+two+weeks+and+it+has+flown%2c+before+I+know+it+he+will+be+off+to+school+and+too+embarassed+to+give+me+a+hug%2e+I+love+your+mum+mantra+and+will+remember+it+when+I+need+to+rock+him+to+sleep%2e%0aFleur
5544 Great+to+hear+you+are+feeling+a+little+better+%2c+I+have+just+retrived+pinky%27s+book+from+a+friend+and+am+ready+to+re+read+it%2c+My+active+clever+and+responsive+%2c+articulate%2c+strong+and+confident+15month+old+is+changing+so+rapidly+and+has+such+a+great+disposition+%2c+I+wouldn%27t+want+her+to+be+any+other+way+%2c+take+care+and+kind+thoughts+wendy